I've found the thing that helps me get into the zone with first-person-shooters, especially with CTF varieties, is knowing the map well enough to be able to predict where everyone is on the map based on where you last saw them -- how long a flag run takes, what the major routes are through the map, getting hit from that angle at that location means someone is sneaking around over there... and it doesn't even need to be exact, not "it takes 18 seconds to cap if you can run at full speed" (which is useful in its own right), but rather "the flag was picked up just as I respawned, and I'm here, and that's when a cap occurs..." or "I saw that guy when I died on that side of the map, and he should be crossing this area just as I respawn..." or "when I'm holding the flag here waiting for our flag to return, attacks usually come from that location, so let's pop a few grenades over there to keep it clear...".
Unfortunately, many FPS maps are created to be simple and _fair_ in the extreme, which ends up severely limiting the kinds of routes you can take (everyone's instinct is always to take the shortest/fastest one, or all routes are roughly the same length), or where the serious choke points are, so if you spend _merely_ weeks playing the same map, you can get a really good feel for the basic attributes.
In junior high, I used to play Counter-Strike competitively, and awareness (knowing the probable locations of opponents in any given scenario for any map) was the name of the game (apart from accuracy and overall competence). It was fascinating how teams would watch opponents' videos to pick up strategies and patterns much how high school football teams study scout tapes.
Unfortunately, many FPS maps are created to be simple and _fair_ in the extreme, which ends up severely limiting the kinds of routes you can take (everyone's instinct is always to take the shortest/fastest one, or all routes are roughly the same length), or where the serious choke points are, so if you spend _merely_ weeks playing the same map, you can get a really good feel for the basic attributes.