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> For example, he mentioned that women, on average, have more neuroticism. [..] he didn't consider the political ramifications of describing 3.5 billion people as neurotic.

You're doing it too. If I say "men have, on average, more muderous tendencies than women", am I describing 3.5 billion people as murderers?



You're technically not, but don't be surprised if people react as though you are.


Certainly, but I don't find the fault to be with the statement, but with people. Our inability to separate "inconvenient general fact" from "specific, personal insult to whole swathes of people" is one of the banes of modern discourse.


Unfortunately, you're communicating with other people. Unless you find a way to magically stop people getting triggered, it's best to avoid certain trigger words and be careful when expressing certain points.


When you're the author, yes, absolutely. When you're a reader, absolutely not, you need to consider what the author is saying rather than what your personal feelings make you think he's saying. Each party must be responsible for their part, and while "he could have been more tactful" is valid criticism, "he shouldn't have offended people" is not.

Just to be more tactful, I don't remember exactly what had happened with this whole thing, I'm only talking about this specific fact.


Or actually educate people on both logic and reality. I realize it seems to be asking for a lot, but we can do better.


I help them with exposure therapy.


Absolutely not. If you are talking about young men, you are stating a statistical fact. As a former young man, I would not be the least bit offended.




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