I'm a little confused by your post. Why do you think you've been singled out and nobody wants to work with you? Simply because you don't excel at whiteboard coding or leetcode questions?
I'm honestly curious. I have never had to really do either of those things in order to get great jobs that pay quite well. Granted, I don't work for a FAANG, haven't even interviewed for one, but I don't feel any less successful even so.
I'm tempted to think you come off as difficult to get along with, but this is entirely based on your writing style here and may be entirely unwarranted :). I've always found that being agreeable helps an awful lot.
I'm a bit embittered. It was a real shock, encountering the new environment. I rapidly learned that it's important for hiring managers to establish dominance in the relationship, which doesn't work so well with people like me.
I made the mistake of working for a company for 27 years, and the culture changed drastically, during that time.
I am a very good person to work with. My LI profile is filled with testimonials as to what kind of person I am. I just believe that humans are very important, and that seems to be an "outlier" philosophy, in today's tech scene.
In a normal friendly conversation it’s very rare for someone to openly accuse another person they just met of faking their job history or something similarly serious.
I'm honestly curious. I have never had to really do either of those things in order to get great jobs that pay quite well. Granted, I don't work for a FAANG, haven't even interviewed for one, but I don't feel any less successful even so.
I'm tempted to think you come off as difficult to get along with, but this is entirely based on your writing style here and may be entirely unwarranted :). I've always found that being agreeable helps an awful lot.