My suggestion would be to find a simple website and clone it, or come up with your own idea. Start with Django and Python as it's easy to pick up compared to most anything else in my experience, and just learn by doing, searching stack overflow, and looking at other Django projects on github. That's how I learn new languages and frameworks and it seems to work well. However it might be different since you aren't yet a programmer.

I would say not to spend too much time reading books as you won't remember any of it when it comes time to code.