You know what's funny? What you said is true for pretty much everything else in life, too. Not just sex.

Here's something I've learned that rocked my world: most things are not nearly as complicated as I make them in my head. Apparently this comes from some kind of childhood issue with pleasing parents. But if you're smart, chances are you can do a lot more than you give yourself credit for.

I just wish I'd learned that earlier.